Soap Opera Discussion Groups and Forums

OLTL Discussion Group

Topic: Mother's Day


Topic Posted by: Gail M
Date Posted: Wed May 7 10:15:48 2008
Additional Comments:

Are you doing anything special this week?    My mother and mother-in-law have been gone for years.    I will get a call from my stepdaughter on Mother's Day, and if I'm lucky a card.    My stepson loves me and I know it, but if he called or sent a card, I would faint dead away.   He is SO not into mailing anything and is one of the few people on the planet that still doesn't have a computer.   And we just talked on the phone last week, so I know he won't call again.    He will be FORTY this summer.    OMG on that!    He was six when we married.    Anyway, I digress.

Tonight is our Mother/Daughter Banquet at church.    Every church I can remember being a member of has had one.    My sil is going with me and we will sit with our niece and my other sil and my great-niece.   We are having a salad dinner (which I love.)    

What are the traditions (if any) you all have on Mother's Day? 





Add a MessageGuidelinesTopics ListHomeOther SoapsJava ChatRegistration
Posted by: Shrila .. .
Date posted: Thu May 8 16:21:40 2008
Message:

ERIC IS TAKING ME TO SEE Jesus Christ Superstar!! Well on the 29th, anyway, not Sunday, but it's my mother's day present.

Eric and I are both huge Andrew Lloyd Webber fans, and have seen CATS and Phantom of the Opera, and Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Coat. I have seen Jesus Christ Super Star four times. But Eric has never seen it. The last time it was here was in 1991 and Eric was 5, he wanted to go but we thought he should be older than that to make an informed decision. Now, he's old enough, LOL almost 22! and it's gonna be here in Chattanooga! Ted Neeley is reprising his Jesus role.


I CAN'T WAIT!!!

Replies: (list all replies)

  • Cool beans! Hey, I wanted to ask you something. I had my hands on the new Clay cd in WalMart last night, but put it back because I didn't recognize anything on there. Is it more of a ''today'' kind of cd that would appeal to young people? If so, I doubt I would like it. Just sayin'. Gail
  • It is different, but I love it. Put it up to one of those play cd thingy's at Walmart and listen to some of it. I love the song, ''Grace of God'' , '' On My Way Home'', ''Lover all Alone''.... just to name a few you would probably like. It was only $9.72 yesterday when it first came out, but by the weekend it will be the regular price of $13.99. Or $13 something. I was gonna let Eric buy my the Neil Diamond CD, but I'll let him take me to Jesus Christ SuperStar instead!!!! (shrila)
  • Thanks. I didn't know WalMart even had a place to do that. Duh. One of the reasons I've always gotten mine at Borders if I knew which one I wanted. It was already $13.88 at our store, which is why I put it back and decided to ask you about it. I don't mind paying that much (well kinda) if I know it's something I will like. It steams me to get home with something I DON'T like after paying 14 bucks for it. We're (hopefully) going to Tulsa Monday and I am going to get Neil's and Clay's both probably then. Thataway we can listen to them on the way home in the car. :-D Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Aussie Blinky
    Date posted: Thu May 8 6:51:45 2008
    Message:

    I've got Mother's Day and my birthday in consecutive days this year. For Mother's day - Joel is working and Peter is playing cricket.  Hopefully I will get chocolates so I can sit at home, watch a movie and stuff my face and maybe partake in a nice bottle of vino!! 

    I've already sent Mum and Mum-In-Laws pressie and card.

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • Humpf! Terry and I always go out to eat at the restaurant of our choice (usually get filet mignon) on our birthdays. We have STILL not gone for HIS birthday dinner which was in January and mine will be coming up next month. LOL Oftentimes, he will have a meeting on both of our birthdays (or I will have something to do) and we'll celebrate it later in the week or the next week. This year is tough because we have to go to another town to get a good filet. Enjoy your chocolates and vino and Happy Mother's Day! :-) Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Fed Up
    Date posted: Thu May 8 3:28:50 2008
    Message:
    Traditions? My son is a skin-flint. Every time May rolls around he cusses. I bust my a$$ cooking, doing his laundry, making his bed..etc. He says he's not going to buy me anything except fillet mignon which I'll have to cook and he'll eat too.

    I'm not complaining. I'll buy myself something I like. That way if he bought me something I'd run the chance of having to lie that I like it.

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • You don't HAVE to cook that filet. Let him do it or he won't eat with that 'tude. :-P It may not bother you, but it does me! LOL Gail
  • I was basically telling the truth mixed with my brand of humor. Truth is I do all the housework. Jason would never cook because he's scared of getting burned. Especially on an outdoor grill. What Jason does is coordinate our business. Without him I'd go bust...not boobs. He has no interest in learning how to do domestic chores. Someday I won't be around. If he doesn't find a loving patient wife he'll have to pay someone to serve him. It won't be done with a labor of love. It's a good thing he knows how to make money and handle it. I don't know who he inherited that skill from. We have a secret. Only Aussie Bill knows. Someday I'll tell. Fed Up
  • Why, I ought to come all the way and knock on your door now. I HATE secrets where someone tells me there is one. Your humor sometimes escapes moi. Anyway, Terry's mother did everything for him too. He had two much older sisters also. So he will DO housework, but always with a 'tude. I guess I was reacting to that when responding to you. No 'tude, no food. LOL I've been trying to train Terry to just do things without the 'tude for over 33 years to no avail. :-( Good for Jason that he knows how to run a business and make money. Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: bink
    Date posted: Wed May 7 23:16:36 2008
    Message:

    Mother's Day and my b'day ... I am The Queen awaiting her subjects!  You think I'm kidding?  I am not.  If you don't expect it, they don't do it.  I expect it and they know it!!!  Those are my days.  Let the genuflecting begin.

    But back to reality. 

    My kids are thousands of miles away.  My mil is a couple of hours away.  We're going to see her on Sunday.  It's her day.  Okay by me because I know in their hearts my own kids are bowing down and loving me.  (LOL) And bowing to the Grandma too, as I taught  them and (thankfully) as they really feel. 

    They adore their wacky grandma.  My mil is pretty much insane but we all love her anyway.

    No hugs from my grandbinkies but it's all good.

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • LOL You do kindof train people in what you expect from them, don't you? Terry and I neither one make a very big deal about any holidays, including our birthdays. Christmas is a big deal in some ways I suppose. Glad you are going to be with SOME family. We are having lunch with our family here in town to celebrate our niece's birthday Sunday afternoon. Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Tori
    Date posted: Wed May 7 22:47:24 2008
    Message:

    Cards and phone calls...that's about it since only Son and DIL live in the same area as we do. We'll see them. I sent my cards today and will call on Sunday.

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • I'm glad you can get together with your son & dil. :-) Hey, we have oodles of new things planted. Trees, a hydrangea bush, and of course, flowers galore. All of my perennials came back except for my Shasta Daisies. Guess the winter was too cold for them. Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: mags
    Date posted: Wed May 7 21:21:03 2008
    Message:

     

    If I'm lucky I will get a card - probably brought home by Tom on Monday when he sees the kid at work.  If I'm really, really lucky I might get a phone call on Sunday night.

    Honestly we don't do much for Mother's Day or Father's Day.  Usually just the card and phone call.

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • Forgot to say - My Mother passed away many years ago. I don't know what Tom is doing for his Mother. I know he got her a card. She doesn't like to get a lot of flowers at once so Tom and his siblings usually go in together and send her one flower arrangement. As usual, he is leaving it to the last minute. eom mags
  • Guys just aren't generally as good about doing the card/letter thing. At least not the ones I've known. I do have one nephew who is good about sending cards. Who knew he would turn out to be the schmaltzy one? He was a pistol growing up. :-) Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Doopy
    Date posted: Wed May 7 20:45:48 2008
    Message:

    I got my mom's package in the mail this morning. I hope it makes it on time. If I send it too early, she will open it. She's getting really bad about that.

    We don't do much... when the boys were small and we went to church in our former town, there was always something special for moms. A flower, a gift, etc. It was so wonderful to see the kids get so excited towards the end of Mass, knowing they were about to give out the goodies.

    Anymore, it's a card or a phone call. Either is nice. And I will call my mom, and we'll talk about her gift, providing she got it on time. :-D

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • We always get a little something on Mother's Day at the end of the worship service. And the Dad's do on Father's Day too. I heard that our minister is preaching a traditional Mother's Day sermon this Sunday. :-) Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Ulalume
    Date posted: Wed May 7 14:45:45 2008
    Message:
    My sons took me to the Mannheim Steamroller Concert in Aurora on April 19, but they will also take me out to dinner on Mother's Day which is usually Outback or Macaroni Grill.

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • Your concert was a great treat! I think we are the only people in America that don't care for Macaroni Grill. We went on three different occasions and it had WAY too much rosemary in everything for my tastes. I think maybe we must have ordered wrong because it SURE IS popular! :-) Gail

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Annie
    Date posted: Wed May 7 12:58:42 2008
    Message:

    Mother's Day this year is going to be a little different.  My husbands nephew is getting married on Saturday night in New Hampshire so we're leaving Friday morning for a little trip.  Luckily, the kids were invited to the wedding, otherwise we wouldn't have gone.  I didn't want to be away from them on Mother's Day.  We're driving to Boston on Friday and taking the kids to the Boston Children's Museum.  Saturday morning, we'll start heading up to New Hampshire.  We'll probably go to Maine first (since the wedding is on the border or New Hampshire and Maine) for lobster, then check into our hotel.  The wedding doesn't start until 6:30.  Sunday morning we're having breakfast and driving to Mystic, Conn.  We've been there a bunch of times with our daughter, but this is the first visit there for the boy so we're excited.  My husband made reservations for dinner at a nice restaurant up there.  We'll spend Sunday and Monday exploring the museum and the aquarium and head home on Tuesday.  My MIL is very annoyed since she told us yesterday that my sister-in-law (hubby's sister) whose son is getting married is having a Mother's Day BBQ and expects everyone to go.  Well, if you wanted us to go, you should have told us way back when we started making plans.  We let her know months ago that we were going to roll the wedding into a little New England trip. 

    To all the Mom's, grandma's and step-moms on the board:

    HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • Sounds like a wonderful trip! My sis worked in a resort in NH for 3-4 summers while she was in college and I hope to see it before I die. She loved it! She and her hubby went there a few years ago and stayed as guests. Part of the resort was still there, but I think it was just a hotel. Happy Mother's Day to you too. :-) Gail
  • Annie... where are you going in Maine? I live in Maine. Enjoy the museum. The kids will love it! I don't remember where you live. It's beautiful here this week. (Charlotte)
  • Hi Charlotte and Gail. We're stopping in Portsmouth, Maine to eat lobster! I'm looking forward to that. I hope the weather holds out. I've been watching the weather channel and it looks like rain and much, much cooler. We're in NJ and it's been so beautiful and warm all week, but today the rain started.
  • You might be in for a bit of a surprize. Portsmouth is in NH, about 20 mins south of Maine. It's a beautiful city. If you don't know how to eat a lobster, the natives will be eager to teach you. Have a great time. You'll be about an hour and a half south of me. (Charlotte)
  • My bad. The wedding is in Portsmouth, NH and we're driving over the border to eat at Warren's Lobster House. Have you ever been there? My 7 year old is very excited because she loves lobster! We've never been to Maine or New Hampshire so I'm excited to see new places.
  • I just googled it. It's in Kittery. Kittery is a nice Maine town. It's off the beaten path, so I've never eaten there. Portsmouth is a beautiful small New England city. I'm afraid they might be forecasting rain for Sat. Have a great time. It will be a perfect sight of New England. (Charlotte)

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Jenny
    Date posted: Wed May 7 12:15:47 2008
    Message:
    The day is a sad one for me, so I don't initiate anything.  My cousins will be having a "family" dinner.  If I can, I'll get out of it.  I don't feel much like celebrating anything.

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • Sometimes when I'm down just getting out with people helps. But that's me. You're you. :-) I don't put much stock in ANY holiday really. It is just another day. ((((((((((Jenny)))))))) Gail
  • Do something special for yurself. Get a manicure, buy a pin or scarf you've been eying. Take a long, lovely bubble bath. Celebrate you./Ulaume

    Respond to this message


    Posted by: Kubette
    Date posted: Wed May 7 11:52:41 2008
    Message:
    I don't know what's going on Mother's Day.  My daughter works at 6 a.m. that day so my morning will be spent getting up early making sure that she gets up on time. (Yes, I know she should wake up on her own...).  She's done work at 3 so maybe we'll do something after that.  If we just order a pizza or something for supper and I don't have to cook I'll be happy. I'm not even sure if my son realizes it's Mother's Day this weekend.  Maybe I have to drop a few hints.  I also think I'll go put some flowers on my Mom's grave. I haven't been there in far too long. 

    Replies: (list all replies)

  • We are all going to go and put flowers on Terry's parents' graves Memorial Day. And some other relatives too. Pizza would be good because then you wouldn't have to even leave the house if ya didn't wanna. :-) Gail

    Respond to this message


    Add a MessageGuidelinesTopics ListHomeOther SoapsJava ChatRegistration

    Soap Opera Discussion Groups and Forums