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Topic: Sympathies to Roxie


Topic Posted by: fee
Date Posted: Sun Jul 6 0:02:29 2008
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I thought I had put this topic up last night, but apparently I didnt.   Rox emailed me yesterday; her sister died last week.  She was 55.  She went outside to work in the garden and was stung by a wasp, and was allergic.   She was dead within minutes.   Was extra hard on Rox, as they were close.

Rox wanted me to let ya'll know to PLEASE be sure that people that are allergic carry the Epi Pens.   One of them may have saved her sister.   She had had a bad reaction when she was little one time, but never had anything after that. 

I was stung by a honey bee when I was little (I smelled the flower he was in; he wasn't vicious), by a big wasp, and by a baby hornet, both of them when in my teens.   The hornet hurt the most!  Fortunately I never had a worse reaction than some pain. 

Rox said she'll be back on the boards when she's up to it.  Love and prayers to her.





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Posted by: BessBeau
Date posted: Mon Jul 14 12:05:30 2008
Message:
My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. BessBeau

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Posted by: CannaLily
Date posted: Wed Jul 9 13:37:47 2008
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Rox, I 'm so, so sorry to hear this.  Last year a man in our small town died the same way.  When they did a write up in the paper about it, it was said the more we're stung, the worse off our reactions to wasps will be.  My husband seems to get stung at least every couple of years by a yellow jacket.  Each time gets worse and worse.

My problem is I don't know how I'd react.  See, yellow jackets and wasps are my biggest phobia.  We live in the country with a lot of trees and they're just everywhere.  I've never been stung by one, only a honey bee when I was a little girl.  My phobia is so bad I ran from one last year and ended up hurting myself and had to go to the doctor!

When my husband gets stung, I always give him two Benadryl immediately.  I think I'm going to get us an epi pen.  I just recently got an allergy to penacillin, so who knows?

My condolences to you and your family.


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Posted by: fee
Date posted: Tue Jul 8 15:29:07 2008
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OK, Barb!   But I do REALLY think they like, look in the house!

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Posted by: Roxie
Date posted: Mon Jul 7 23:50:02 2008
Message:

Thanks so much to all of you for your kind words and thoughts and prayers. And I sympathize with any of you who have also lost a sibling. It is a very hard loss to take! Katnim and Claire, please be sure that your loved ones have an Epi pen with them at all times. It is so crucial! My sister had a very bad reaction as a child, but had been stung in adulthood that wasn't life-threatening. So you don't know when it WILL be life-threatening. This time her heart stopped in less than 10 minutes.

Thanks again for your sympathies. I very much appreciate all of you!

 


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Posted by: claire
Date posted: Mon Jul 7 16:26:45 2008
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So sorry for your loss, Roxie. My husband is also alergic to wasps and does not carry his epi pen with him. I will remind him. And I will pray for you and your family.

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Posted by: Sammie
Date posted: Mon Jul 7 1:15:53 2008
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What a terrible shock. Prayers for Roxie and her family.


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Posted by: Janie
Date posted: Sun Jul 6 23:49:59 2008
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So, so sorry for your loss Roxie.  What a terrible thing to happen.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers for comfort and healing.

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Posted by: Katnim
Date posted: Sun Jul 6 21:00:10 2008
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My sympathy to Roxie at the loss of her sister. Several years ago my oldest son was stung by a bee and he had a bad reaction to it. Fortunately we were able to get him to a doctor who gave him a shot.  He hasn't had any reactions since then thank goodness.

I lost my only sister 20 years ago so I know how much Roxie will miss her sister too.


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Posted by: maggimae
Date posted: Sun Jul 6 0:19:44 2008
Message:
My sympathies to Roxie. I lost my little sister at age 52, but she comes to me often in my dreams.

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  • Deepest sympathies to Roxie and I am
  • Barb, I see those nasty wasps all the time, hovering at my windows, and looking in like they want to come in and sting sombody! I HATE the way they hover! fee
  • Fee, you may want to check
  • mm, that is so great that your sister often visits you in dreams! How very comforting. I have always heard that dreams were the best way for our loved ones to contact and visit us and I believe it. I have had a few contact dreams from my daughter and once from my nephew. You can tell the difference between the dream and the visit, right? It's wonderful. I just wish I could remember my dreams more. I hardly ever dream or remember them and it's disappointing. I am so sorry that you lost your sister and I know her visits are a comfort to you! How long has it been since you lost her? Roxie
  • Roxie, my sister was sixteen years younger than I and had been ill for a long time. She died about four years ago./mm

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