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Topic: what are your pet peeves


Topic Posted by: too much time on my hands
Date Posted: Thu Apr 24 20:25:54 2008
Additional Comments: I detest people dragging their feet when they walk. The other day at Walgreens, every aisle I went down this slouchy 20 something chick kept dragging her feet. I had to keep myself from yelling pick up your d%*n feet already!! And people wearing pj bottoms and houseshoes out in public!! WTH!! Yours?



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Posted by: lifetimeviewer
Date posted: Mon Apr 28 7:25:39 2008
Message:
I have several but my number one is people who crack their gum.  I don't mean, blowing a bubble with bubble gum (although that is kinda gross in its own way) but that chopping, mouth open cracking sound many people make with their chewing gum.  Animals don't look or sound as disgusting as that.  It is so offensive to everyone around and makes the "chewer" look like an uneducated, back woods hick.

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Posted by: zip
Date posted: Sun Apr 27 14:24:57 2008
Message:
When someone says I could care less, shouldn't it be couldn't care less? And money is the root of all evil. S/b LOVE OF money is the root of all evil

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Posted by: maggimae
Date posted: Sun Apr 27 13:50:47 2008
Message:

I'm pretty easy going, but have to agree that missuse of language gets me such as:

between you and I

using apostrophes in plural forms (loved the Oreo's example)

I feel badly. IMO, ''feel'' here is a state of being verb and should be followed by an adjective rather than an adverb. So when you say you feel badly, it means your sense of touch is below par.

Now the other pet peeve already mentioned is when people don't use their turn signals. Funny thing happened a while back. I was at a four way stop. The car coming toward me did not have turn signals on, so I figured it was just going forward and so I started across the intersection and it turned left in front of me. I put up my hands in disgust. Turned out it was a cop car. I proceeded and the cop car turned around and pulled me over. The policeman said he had the right of way. I said yes, but he should have had his turn signals on. The guy (who was quite young) sputtered and said it was not a law that he had to use his turn signal. So I (a little old lady), just patted his arm and said, ''That's all right. I'll let you go this time.''

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  • Just thought of another one: The use of the word ''arguably.'' It's so wishy washy. If you make a statment and add the word arguably, it means you're not really sure./mm
  • gotta love those self righteous cops. NOT!! I see them making up their own road rules all the time, with no lights or siren on
  • Was he serious? Cops don't have to use turn signals? You should have called into his chief for that one!
  • maggiemae, that is TOO funny! Did he crack up when you said that? HAWHAWHAWHAWHAW! fee
  • He was all shook up. Really flustered. It was hysterical./mm

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    Posted by: Janie
    Date posted: Sun Apr 27 1:44:25 2008
    Message:
    I'm so tired of people using the expresssion, 'There you go.'  It was cute at first but now everyone is always saying it and I can't stand it anymore.  I also hate, 'went missing.'  What a stupid misuse of language.

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  • when I am handed back my change by a lazy cashier saying there you go, and of course not counting it back irks me
  • Nobody counts out change any more. I don't think they know how to. Also, if it's more than a dollar in change, they fold the coins up inside the bill because heaven forbid their hand touches yours when placing change in your palm.
  • Oh. Oh! I also hate the words ''cabinetry'' and ''signage''. Why are they just called cabinets and signs?
  • I hate gone missing, as well as went missing, and the other big one! How to GROW your business! Sets my teeth straight on edge! fee

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    Posted by: Roxie
    Date posted: Sat Apr 26 18:22:24 2008
    Message:

    I have so many! But most of them have been covered here. I am glad the ''people dragging their feet'' was mentioned. I HATE that! How can anybody be too lazy to pick their feet up off the floor while walking?? And drivers who are way below the speed limit until you finally get a chance to pass, then they speed up to prevent it! I followed an old man doing this for 20 miles the other day when I was in a hurry and running late. I can understand road rage some days! And cell phones...PERIOD! I even have idiots come in to my office for an interview and answer cell phone calls! You can bet that these people will not be renting from me!

    I have several for work, too. I can not tolerate copied copies, when forms start stretching, get dirty and warped. I have gone off on several assistants who can't comprehend copying from original documents even after getting chewed out for it. Also, my assistant answering the phone with ''yes, she's here...may I ask who's calling'' when I tell her to screen my calls. DUH! How am I going to dodge this one if they know I'm here? Or ''she's tied up'', LOL. I've never been TIED UP in my life! Or yelling at me from her office instead of walking a few steps to tell me something.

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  • Suggest she say **I will check for you...who is calling please?************Also, I know someone who had a stroke and drug her feet, so keep that in mind next time. Just a thought.
  • I'm talking about lazy slackers in their 20s dragging their feet. Roxie

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    Posted by: Tosca
    Date posted: Sat Apr 26 13:32:33 2008
    Message:

     

    People who drive under the speed limit in the fast lane of the interstate

    People who hang on my bumper when I'm already going 10 miles OVER the speed limit and there's no place for me to pull over to let him pass

    People who back into a parking spot because it takes them so #$&% long to maneuver while everyone's waiting

    People who spit on the sidewalk and then you have to walk past the big ol' gob

    People who don't pick up after their dog craps on my lawn

    People who don't pack their groceries themselves when there are long lines and not enough packers.

    People who pick up things in the grocery store and eat them without paying-- like a banana, grapes, loose pack candies, donuts, etc.

    Incorrectly spelled advertising signs.  Last week there was a sign in the grocery store for "OREO'S"   um. Oreo's what? Oreo's wife? Oreo's red car?  Last time I looked, the plural of Oreo is Oreos. 

     

    Boy, do I sound like a sourpuss!


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    Posted by: Babyducks
    Date posted: Sat Apr 26 12:49:01 2008
    Message:
    Yes, I've noticed that also..especially with flip flops on.  Another one of mine is people that wear their pj's out in public ... can't stand that. 

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    Posted by: feemeister
    Date posted: Fri Apr 25 23:09:02 2008
    Message:

    Years ago, I saw a mother put her baby down in a store.  The store had a tile floor, and it was very dirty.   She put the baby on the floor and walked a ways away, and called him to come to her, to show someone how he could crawl!   I  just CRINGED!!!

    People that put their purse down on the FLOOR in a public restroom.   My own MOTHER does that!   That also makes me cringe!

    Dropping napkins in a restaurant, and then picking them up off the floor and using them!   Picking up things you drop in a parking lot and handling them or putting them in your purse!   As I told my sister's boyfriend's son, rednecks SPIT all over the place in the parking lots.   You walk over this with your shoes, and track it wherever you walk.   Do NOT pick up things you've dropped, because they have redneck spittle on it!  He was only 7 when I told him that, but apparently it made an impression!   My sister said when he was 12 he would still jump all over people that picked stuff up off the floor!  (Somebody LISTENED to me!) 

    Those things just gross me out!    Stupid people in their cars on their cellphones not paying the slightest bit of attention to what's going on out on the road!   People that pass in their cars when NOTHING is coming!   People who have to turn out in front of you and make you slam on your breaks!  People who are going straight through an intersection and had a green light that has turned red, but people still go through it, and then the people on the other side who need to turn on there VERY SHORT green arrow don't get to turn, because the other people hogged their time while going through the red light!   (And the longer the people on that side had their green light, it seems the more people drive through it when it's red!)  

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  • Whooopsie! People on the shows who say, ''You deserve BETTER than that!'' fee

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    Posted by: katiesbeach
    Date posted: Fri Apr 25 14:34:15 2008
    Message:

    Cell phones!

    • In traffic.  I don't care who you are, or how careful you are, if you are on a cell phone, you AREN'T PAYING ATTENTION.
    • In a resturant. - Guess what, I don't care about your conversation.  I don't want to hear it.  You are rude.
    • In the grocery store - Hey, make your list like I do before you go to the store.  Otherwise, you are holding up everyone, again, by not paying attention to anyone around you.
    • In meetings - Nuff said.
    • At your kids baseball/football/basketball etc. game.  - Hey, pay attention to your kid.  Who could be THAT important.
    • And anytime you answer your cell phone when I've made plans (lunch, dinner, etc.) to spend time with you.

    And no, I don't have a cell phone!

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  • ITA and might I add mothers with children in stores gabbing on their phones the whole time, and not talking at all to the child who might as well be invisible.
  • When you start paying that cell phone bill and are elected governor, THEN you can determine the behavior and habits of others, OK? A sick person or a loved one in need might be on the other end of that cell phone speaking to a person who would LOVE to be THERE with them, but cannot because of work or obligations.
  • Since we hear one half of the conversation, it's usually obvious if someone is talking to an ill person, an elderly person, etc. Most of the time I hear a loud cell phone conversation it's about work related stuff . If you can't sit through your kid's baseball game without being on the phone discussing work at 7 pm, something's wrong here. I don't mind sitting in a restaurant and hearing a short call that is related to the situation, like the call is from the other party informing the person's already there that they're running late. Or if you hear someone on the phone giving directions. But to have entire LOUD conversations in the middle of a grocery store is annoying. I really don't want to hear about someone's Aunt Rose's recent surgery while I'm getting my hair cut.
  • Have you ever been in a bathroom stall and think someone in the next stall is talking to you when they are actually on their cell phone? That has happened to me. BTW, loud talking on cell phones is extremely common and it's called ''cell yell.''/mm
  • when I start paying for the cell phone bill? excuse me, but I don't have one by choice. but I am paying by having to listen to other people on them, or be at the recieving end of their ignorance. I can tell when someone is on a serious conversation or if there is an emergency, so give me a break.

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    Posted by: Deb
    Date posted: Thu Apr 24 21:39:09 2008
    Message:
    One of my pet peeves is people pulling out in front of you when there isn't anyone behind you for miles (and I also might add - I hate when people don't use their turning signals).  Not many pet peeves here.  Deb

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    Posted by: Barb
    Date posted: Thu Apr 24 20:32:19 2008
    Message:
    Got one today! This lady was on her cell phone merging into my traffic lane-I had my turn signal on to make my exit where she was entering-she paid NO attention to me- I had to slow down to to let her pass me- accident prevented!

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  • been there! they never have a clue that WE are paying attention and keeping THEM from being in a wreck!

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